Develop yourself through failures

- Let's be clear. … Using your mistakes, setbacks and failures … to build stronger relationships with others … is only one benefit. … Arguably, the biggest benefit … is how these challenging situations … will help you personally grow as a professional. … Here I'm referring to your mental skillset and disposition, … your fundamental daily persona … and how it will change and improve … as you begin to learn to frame failures positively. … It takes a lot of work to systematically think through … what caused a failure and what to do about it. … The good news is that with practice, … you'll learn something useful … and your daily attitude will become stronger. … Let me be specific. … By learning to embrace failure, … you'll grow stronger in terms of compassion, … humility, courage, and perspective. … Let's think about each one briefly. … First is compassion. … Humans are wired to judge … and sometimes think arrogant thoughts. … The more you choose to openly face your failures, … own them and learn from them, …