40/40 emotional energy

- It has been said that emotions equal energy in motion.…Emotions move energy without moving matter,…like a sound wave.…We are learning much about how emotions work,…from the fields of psychology, neuroscience,…chemistry, and biology.…Scientists can see the release of energy…generated from our hearts, and how that affects…our emotions, thinking, and actions.…One thing we know for sure is this.…

Depending on the stage you are on,…your emotional energy is either weaker…or stronger than the other person.…Let's pretend you walk onto a stage by yourself.…How much of the emotional energy would you own on it?…This isn't a trick question.…You would be right if you said 100%.…Now let's pretend you're on the emotional stage…with another person.…It may be a co-worker, a boss, suboordinate, you name it.…I'll assume you prefer the HR hero role,…and are a good person, and want to treat this person fairly.…

Now, how much emotional energy would feel right…to take up on the stage?…If you're like most people, your answer would be 50%.…